Children often feel that liking a stepmother is a betrayal of their biological mother.
Explicitly tell the child you are not trying to replace their mother. Always speak of the biological mother with civility and respect, even in the face of provocation. This lowers the child’s defenses and reduces their internal conflict. 4. Implement "Micro-Bonding" Tactics stepmother re-program
This process involves deconstructing old societal expectations and installing a new "operating system" for your family life. 1. Delete the "Instant Mother" Myth Children often feel that liking a stepmother is